I was not prepared for how scared I was about going on my year abroad. Since I was in primary school, I knew I wanted to go, but the reality of living in a completely new country for a year hadn’t hit till a month before leaving. Thinking back on it now, I believe this was largely the stress of sorting out my visa bleeding into the rest of the preparation period but I was still nervous. I didn’t speak Czech, had never been to Prague, and knew no one else going. Also, I had never had a roommate so was dreading that too. I imagine, many of you will also be scared or nervous so I have a message from current me to past me that may help – do It!! The friends I made and the places I went in the first week alone made it worth the trip and I still have a whole year left!!
I’ll get into the specifics of my time abroad in the other posts – for now I want to give suggestions and tips for the first weeks as well as things to research or prepare before going abroad.
- Just go!!
I’m normally a homebody, and much prefer hanging out with friends at home than going clubbing but that’s not the best way to make friends. My roommate and I became quick friends, and when she invited me to a bar to meet some other people I initially wanted to say no. Thankfully, I gave into her request and met people that would become my friends for all of the first term and beyond. Getting out of your comfort zone is the whole point of a year abroad, so embrace that energy and get out there!!
2. Boundaries
I will admit I got very lucky with my roommate. Us getting along made the first few weeks a breeze, and I know people who weren’t so lucky. Firstly, if you are in dormitories like I am, you should be able to request a room change if the situation is bad – yes its a hassle but it’s ultimately worth it rather than ending up miserable. Secondly, whether you get along or not, it is important to discuss ground rules. Being open about things you would/wouldn’t like to see in your living space is a good way to kick things off smoothly. You may not end up being besties with your roommate but you can avoid driving each other up the wall. Having that basis just makes everything smoother.
3. Patience
So, you’re not close to your roommate and haven’t had fun at any events in the first week. Thats okay. Some people have slower starts than others, but it does work out. I was still making friends with people in my classes up to the last day of winter term, and even now I’m talking to people coming in for the second term. You’ll find your people, they’ll find you – you just need to get out there and take chances.
Prague specifically is a beautiful city with so many places to visit especially when the weather is nice in September and October – its a great place to get to know people so feel free to set up small trips!! I know a few people asked in our dorm chat if people wanted to join, which is a great way to meet new people, so take advantage of that freedom in the first few days and make the most of it!